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Friday, April 27, 2007

Personal Goal Setting

Goal setting is a powerful process for personal planning.

The process of setting goals helps you choose where you want to go in life. By knowing precisely what you want to achieve, you know where you have to concentrate your efforts. You'll also quickly spot the distractions that would otherwise lure you from your course.

More than this, properly-set goals can be incredibly motivating, and as you get into the habit of setting and achieving goals, you'll find that your self-confidence builds fast.

Achieving More With Focus

Goal setting techniques are used by top-level athletes, successful business-people and achievers in all fields. They give you long-term vision and short-term motivation. They focus your acquisition of knowledge and help you to organize your time and your resources so that you can make the very most of your life.

By setting sharp, clearly defined goals, you can measure and take pride in the achievement of those goals. You can see forward progress in what might previously have seemed a long pointless grind. By setting goals, you will also raise your self-confidence, as you recognize your ability and competence in achieving the goals that you have set.

Starting to Set Personal Goals

Goals are set on a number of different levels: First you create your "big picture" of what you want to do with your life, and what large-scale goals you want to achieve. Second, you break these down into the smaller and smaller targets that you must hit so that you reach your lifetime goals. Finally, once you have your plan, you start working to achieve it.

We start this process with your Lifetime Goals, and work down to the things you can do today to start moving towards them.

Your Lifetime Goals

The first step in setting personal goals is to consider what you want to achieve in your lifetime (or at least, by a significant and distant age in the future) as setting Lifetime Goals gives you the overall perspective that shapes all other aspects of your decision making.

To give a broad, balanced coverage of all important areas in your life, try to set goals in some these categories (or in categories of your own, where these are important to you):

  • Artistic:
    Do you want to achieve any artistic goals? If so, what?

  • Attitude:
    Is any part of your mindset holding you back? Is there any part of the way that you behave that upsets you? If so, set a goal to improve your behavior or find a solution to the problem.

  • Career:
    What level do you want to reach in your career?

  • Education:
    Is there any knowledge you want to acquire in particular? What information and skills will you need to achieve other goals?

  • Family:
    Do you want to be a parent? If so, how are you going to be a good parent? How do you want to be seen by a partner or by members of your extended family?

  • Financial:
    How much do you want to earn by what stage?

  • Physical:
    Are there any athletic goals you want to achieve, or do you want good health deep into old age? What steps are you going to take to achieve this?

  • Pleasure:
    How do you want to enjoy yourself? - you should ensure that some of your life is for you!

  • Public Service:
    Do you want to make the world a better place? If so, how?

Spend some time brainstorming these, and then select one goal in each category that best reflects what you want to do. Then consider trimming again so that you have a small number of really significant goals on which you can focus.

As you do this, make sure that the goals that you have set are ones that you genuinely want to achieve, not ones that your parents, family, or employers might want (if you have a partner, you probably want to consider what he or she wants, however make sure you also remain true to yourself!)

Starting to Achieve Your Lifetime Goals

Once you have set your lifetime goals, set a 25 year plan of smaller goals that you should complete if you are to reach your lifetime plan. Then set a 5 year plan, 1 year plan, 6 month plan, and 1 month plan of progressively smaller goals that you should reach to achieve your lifetime goals. Each of these should be based on the previous plan.

Then create a daily- to- do list of things that you should do today to work towards your lifetime goals. At an early stage these goals may be to read books and gather information on the achievement of your goals. This will help you to improve the quality and realism of your goal setting.

Finally review your plans, and make sure that they fit the way in which you want to live your life.

Staying on Course

Once you have decided your first set of plans, keep the process going by reviewing and updating your to-do list on a daily basis. Periodically review the longer term plans, and modify them to reflect your changing priorities and experience.

An easy way of doing this is to use the goal-setting software like goal pro6on a daily basis - we review GoalPro on the left-hand sidebar, alternatively you can download GoalPro from Success studios web site. GoalPro uses a similar set of categories to ones we recommend - either use theirs, or adapt the software to use ours.

Goal Setting Tips

The following broad guidelines will help you to set effective goals:
  • State each goal as a positive statement: Express your goals positively - 'Execute this technique well' is a much better goal than 'Don't make this stupid mistake'
  • Be precise: Set a precise goal, putting in dates, times and amounts so that you can measure achievement. If you do this, you will know exactly when you have achieved the goal, and can take complete satisfaction from having achieved it.
  • Set priorities: When you have several goals, give each a priority. This helps you to avoid feeling overwhelmed by too many goals, and helps to direct your attention to the most important ones.
  • Write goals down: This crystallizes them and gives them more force.
  • Keep operational goals small: Keep the low-level goals you are working towards small and achievable. If a goal is too large, then it can seem that you are not making progress towards it. Keeping goals small and incremental gives more opportunities for reward. Derive today's goals from larger ones.
  • Set performance goals, not outcome goals: You should take care to set goals over which you have as much control as possible. There is nothing more dispiriting than failing to achieve a personal goal for reasons beyond your control. These could be bad business environments, poor judging, bad weather, injury, or just plain bad luck. If you base your goals on personal performance, then you can keep control over the achievement of your goals and draw satisfaction from them.
  • Set realistic goals: It is important to set goals that you can achieve. All sorts of people (employers, parents, media, society) can set unrealistic goals for you. They will often do this in ignorance of your own desires and ambitions. Alternatively you may set goals that are too high, because you may not appreciate either the obstacles in the way, or understand quite how much skill you need to develop to achieve a particular level of performance.

This is something we focus on in detail in our "Design your life" program, which not only helps you decide your goals, it then helps you set the vivid, compelling goals you need if you're to make the most of your goal setting.

SMART Goals:
A useful way of making goals more powerful is to use the SMART mnemonic. While there are plenty of variants, SMART usually stands for:

  • S Specific
  • M Measurable
  • A Attainable
  • R Relevant
  • T Time-bound

For example, instead of having “to sail around the world” as a goal, it is more powerful to say “To have completed my trip around the world by December 31, 2015.” Obviously, this will only be attainable if a lot of preparation has been completed beforehand!

Achieving Goals

When you have achieved a goal, take the time to enjoy the satisfaction of having done so. Absorb the implications of the goal achievement, and observe the progress you have made towards other goals. If the goal was a significant one, reward yourself appropriately.

When you have achieved a goal, take the time to enjoy the satisfaction of having done so. Absorb the implications of the goal achievement, and observe the progress you have made towards other goals. If the goal was a significant one, reward yourself appropriately. All of this helps you build the self-confidence you deserve.

With the experience of having achieved this goal, review the rest of your goal plans:

  • If you achieved the goal too easily, make your next goals harder

  • If the goal took a dispiriting length of time to achieve, make the next goals a little easier
  • If you learned something that would lead you to change other goals, do so
  • If you noticed a deficit in your skills despite achieving the goal, decide whether to set goals to fix this.

Failure to meet goals does not matter much, as long as you learn from it. Feed lessons learned back into your goal setting program.

Remember too that your goals will change as you get older. Adjust them regularly to reflect growth in your knowledge and experience, and if goals do not hold any attraction any longer, then let them go.

Key points:

Goal setting is an important method of:

  • Deciding what is important for you to achieve in your life;

  • Separating what is important from what is irrelevant, or a distraction;
  • Motivating yourself; and
  • Building your self-confidence, based on successful achievement of goals.

If you don't already set goals, do so, starting now. As you make this technique part of your life, you'll find your career accelerating, and you'll wonder how you did without it!

The following services and resources can help you set and achieve your goals more effectively:

Wednesday, April 25, 2007


The pleasure,your interest,aim may be clouded by your own circumstances.This is action of god to check your stability.Don't get bored out of it.Just think of your benefit of the goal(your car,mobile,status,dressing,money,your cuisines etc).Others may say ill of your goal,just don't mind of it if you feel its not apt.Go in your way of aim just focus it at.Just close your eyes & tell i will acheive my dream 10 times,will restore your spirit

Saturday, April 14, 2007

Simply dream~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

I am not talking about night dream.Its your personal affairs,what ever it may be have a good sleep with sweet dreams.My focus is at realistic day dreaming.Dr Jose silva (late) a lost diamond of phsycatrics,told dreams come true.Let his words be true or false,what ever may be lets have some dream ,it doesnt matters a paise or a cent.Just have a dream of your future,i mean your circumstances,your dress,car,position,your pride,your style,your girl friend.Dream benefits out of your career (mainly),what ever benefits you may recieve just dream it man.ohhhhhhh dont make others to call you mad,i take no guarantee if hmmm such thing happen so.Adidas a famous brand ya? Lets expand it,oh no it have its own expansion,from those bits of words we will be able to explain how adidas started up &now a world leading sports goods maker.All Day I Dream About Sports.


I often told you earlier have a strong base,non be convinced at others even me,what ever others may say, you must not be shakened.You should be in your own strand.You have the power with you,you have the blessings with you,you have the patience with you.Ahh i missed patience is very naughty one,she is bit restless if you loose it you are totally lost,else it may chain to success.Now i think my self why i type all these things,i am not a proffessor,lecturer.This is not a career guidance.This is guidance to your self.You mustn't be like this "bold"but you must be like that in your life.

Four faculties for you

I think,the following four guidelines may bring you success in your life.
If you want to comprehense or digest a matter to your perfection&to have your own ideas
  • Acquire 25% of the matter from expertise(teachers,proffessors scholars etc).
  • Next 25% from your friends(through debates,disscusion etc).
  • Next 25% from self thinking(your conclusions).
  • Next 25% be a secret for the moment.

Last share will soon be revealed.

Thursday, April 12, 2007

What all you need??????

Next step is to acquire some knowledge&information about your career.Some basic knowledge only.Try to contact some one who is expertise in that field.They will guide you through.Try to implement your ideas in it.Remember what ever field you are intersted in it ,if you are outstanding in it you can fly over the world of success.Next step is to implement is practical skill,which is certainly lacked by mordern youth.They should be acquainted with enough of practical skill.There are no such institution which gives you practical knowledge&skill.It can only be gained by your own experience.Learning from a driving school is far more different from learning near a taxi driver.He will give you practical idea while driving,instead driving school will have a spoon feeding system.If for eg driving school teacher may tell you always drive by left side,dont over speed etc.A taxi driver instead will tell you ,"if there are no vehicles in road you can drive in centre".If you are a driver of ambulance or fire fighter,over speed is unevitable.People leaving in forests(aadivaasi) are more expertise in weather forcasting than those scientists in weather forcasting station who keeps on telling "there will be chances to rain or not to rain".Their relies importance of practical skill &ability.No shortcuts,develop by yourself according to your circumstances.Of course financial status may threaten a bit but not much.If your desire is more nothing can prevent you

Acheiving the impossible!!!

What ever we feel diffficult in this world is our superstition,we need to be tough &gentle at our lives.having some patience,is far more plus.When ever we feel difficult to do something,just think of blind,deaf etc who are living smartly in this world.How they are living with enthusiasm,they leave with their own determination to live,inspite of circumstances.If they can do why do we?.Make some challenges achieve it.Let first it be some small one,like acheiving 90%marks,promotion,successfull projects etc.Then increase the level to become a millionare.Remember this requires a lot of patience.Henry Ford-started at a work shop earlier in U.S. Now his vision turned to one of the world leading motor company.Now i wish to tell you from my own experience in my life never deny to show others your ignorance.It will save&serve you in future.Please forgive my grammer ,iam not a master at english like Now i will point outmany celebrities who can be made roll model in your life,Amitabhbachchan,Sachin tendulkar,Bill gates,Dheeru bai ambani etc.Its better to be roll model of your self instead of someone else .I advice you to do so.So firstly what ever ambition,you may have,what ever high may it range,be tough on it &be gentle with some patience. Secondly never loose your interst in it,dont be exhausted at others words,of course give a ear to others ,take it if you feel good,else leave it through next ear.Thirdly visualize&imagination your future mith more coincedence to reality.Visualize with faith.Dream transfer to thoghts&thoghts result in action.Believe in your self.In my next post i will explain further steps to achieve your world.